Protective lies

A person will change if he wants to change... You can not make someone to change because you want that, something like that is impossible. You can try , of course you can try and believe in yourself but he/she will change only and only if they want that changing...Welcome in a relationship bitches!
The truth is after few relationship you think "oh dear I am smart now ,I am a fucking expert ,I can make him to do whatever I want" , and yes of course you have a little extra experience but In this world my dear you can not change him without his willing. All you have to do is to play smart. Play by his rules but do not forget your bound.The ugly truth is that all of them will make you suffer , less or more, harder or softer, but its in they're nature. You only have to decide who is worth suffering for.And when you make that decision its on you all that you accept from him.
Back to cheating liars. Yep, they will cheat they are guys, and all of you that think that he is the prince of never cheating story , well he is not. But he is a damn good liar because you didn't find out and it doesn't hurt you. We are all the same. they are all the same, the thing is who is worth of your love and affection,respect, friendship,heart and life.

You know they always try to be sweet not to hurt you , play Innocent guys , pure little souls...and guess what ,neither one of us are better...remember how many times you try that silly puppy face and tears. So don't blame them. I am not on they're side believe me I would set them on fire but lets be honest if we were angels.
Let them lie..As long as it doesn't affect your story , your love and respect, your  life and heart..As long as you wake up in his arms, and he makes that perfect coffee in the morning, as long as his heart is in your hands, you can brake it at any time, but don't do that because he gave you that one thing that is the most important most precious because he loves you and respect you and he did it because he knows you are his present his future and his everything. I know sometimes there are this little lies and secrets that you know about and it hurts , but when you think about it think twice , does it really makes you feel like shit, no respected not loved, did he broke you? Than set that motherfucker on fire! Until that is an innocent thing that he try's to protect you from ( or at least he thinks so, even I know how badly you would like to hear that lie) let him protect you. Like you do it for him. Protect each other because life is full of unexpected .Some secret are just good to stay secret, some lies are protective lies. Remember he gave you something extraordinary that you can brake at any point , but he believed in you that you will protect it like he does with yours. Hearts, Life , Love and a bit of lies.

xoxo Ybell