According to how are we in bed, results everyday behavior

I have read somewhere something about how we are in bed so are we in real life ... and I cant stop but asking myself is it true?

 

That gets me to the another question , how am I in bed? who can tell that? If you ask an ex ...oh that's wrong, because if you left him and that was no friendly brake up , I think you were bad, really bad in bed :))) and if you ask your actual boyfriend you are amazing, because what the hell would he stay with you if your bad. So how are we in bed? do that really reflect on our everyday behavior?
I guess maybe it reflects somehow on our behavior at some point ,but really it made me think... I remember....You know girls talk and all of that contain subject about sex and sleeping with your guy ,and of course now I analyze how some of them told me about acts , when we gossip over a coffee...

...so Jen was the aggressive one , but she was addicted to vibrators because the guy didn't made to her expectation  and when I reflect it on her everyday life she is like that , she search for that orgasms in one place but she still needs her "vibrators " to make her come. The other one Tiffany she was always trying to get it over with every time , she didn't focus on herself and still in everyday life she makes the same, she shuts herself up to please her guy and forget about her needs. She never point her point of view or what she wants, so in everyday behavior she does the same. Then when you are the dominant one like Mandy , she is the boss in her home too. She does what she wants when she wants. She never forbid to her guy to do something but also she is the dominant one in bed and in her everyday life. So I guess its true , the way you behave in bed it reflects on your everyday behavior .

 So I couldn't help myself but ask my fiance how am I in bed ? So I got my answer in tree words : seductive, emotional and not selfish...I guess he is right because I always put others in front and I care about not hurting someone in anyway so it makes me not selfish, because I would give you my last bite of chocolate any second, emotional is answer at every time I get to cry over little thing and that sometimes annoys me , I feel to emotional about every fucking little thing and I can cry every time I watch "The Notebook"... I'm like Niagara falls ... About seductive, I can only think that that's the way I made him fall for me in the first place, So there is the answer. We are everyday like we behave in bed. Welcome girls! make yourself clear what you need in bed so you can get it everyday.
Xoxo Ybell

Lovers and the one...

“They say a good love is one that sits you down, gives you a drink of water, and pats you on top of the head. But I say a good love is one that casts you into the wind, sets you ablaze, makes you burn through the skies and ignite the night like a phoenix; the kind that cuts you loose like a wildfire and you can't stop running simply because you keep on burning everything that you touch! I say that's a good love; one that burns and flies, and you run with it!” 
― C. JoyBell C.

It crossed my mind today, how many time we love in our lives ? Is it just one great big love and a lot of other copies , is it like you have to try until you really find that great one so you can know that person is greater than the others , or do you just sit an wait to fall there the perfect one in your lap as  try to be patient little country girl.. I think we love all of those who cross our doorstep, because we chose to let them cross it , but we love them less or more and of course in different ways . We have boundaries for those who we trust less and love less and we open up to those who we trust and love more. But how you know that you found the greatest person of them all , to love him and respect and be there for better or for worst? And what if we have found him and let him go...did we missed the love of our lives? I guess if he is yours to be, and you let him , set him free or just walked around and didn't get it, that he was the one, he will eventually come back...because what its meant to be ...it will find his way where it belongs. and if its not it have never been yours at all.
Do you believe in destiny? I didn't and than I realised its something bigger than us that we even don't notice. It just hits you. Bang! And there it is it was meant to be like this...So i think we love more than once in different ways , but there is that one person that is your destiny and it will find his way to you, because there is the place where he belongs. there is home. Home never was a place, its a person. with who you feel save, strong and loved. And when you find that person that fits there in your hug and you just feel it...love and butterflies and shaking every time when you look into his eyes...never, ever...let him go! He is the one, the greatest the love of your life...let him in and welcome him with all your heart and love, Cheers dears to love of our lives to find his way home!

“If he can't handle you at your worst then he does not deserve you at your best. Real love means seeing beyond the words spoken out of pain, and instead seeing a person's soul.” 
― Shannon L. Alder, 300 Questions LDS Couples Should Ask Before Marriage


Xoxo Ybell