A lot of us search for the perfect recipe of love, some of us founds it and some of us doesn't...And the most part doesn't.Why?
I searched for this recipe for few years. I was always surrounded with gr8 friends most of them male, because in my opinion girls were a lil bit to jealous too needy and too much seeing bitchy part of me. So I listened to story and advices from guys , but that didn't helped. They are all the same and all different at the same time. So back to recipe. I looked for it like desperate for it and there are still days when I search for it.
There are a lot of magazines writing about those things how to find mister perfect, there are books and a lot of literature wrote for love, from love, with love,how and where to search, how to talk, how to walk,how to behave.How to find your soul mate and how to keep it. or at least for a period of time.
I have read thousand and hundreds of it, everywhere on paper and Internet. I looked around for happy couples and talk to them about it, friends or friends of friends or just acquittance. I asked my parents or older people for advice , they are so many years in a happy marriage...But finally I got my answer. I have to look inside my heart, there is the answer. In me. Everyone should search for it inside of himself, because there is the right answer.
I could try to give you some pattern what really matters for love and happiness but I also tell this to myself, because one day I may forget it, and I will search for that again inside my heart. Hopefully my dear soul mate will be right next to me and we will laugh out of happiness...Somehow it has always been there, the answer, but there is only one way to find it and only one way to keep it. The right person.
You should live with someone who is making you smile, and he laughs with you and he makes jokes with you , but also he laughs at everything you say crazy and even stupid. that's happiness. Laugh with each other like kids.Live with that person that you have a lot to talk about, all those things that happen to you to him. About everything. Make a good communication, because when you are young there are a lot of possibilities but when you're older you need that one person to be there to talk about everything because communication is the key of a good relationship. Love that person that is there for you and you are there for him no matter what. Without secrets, that's also the key of a gr8 relationship, when you decide that you too love each other , there should not be secrets. Love each other a lot and believe in each other and talk a lot. about the day, about meal, about dreams and hopes, about plans, traveling, distance, hugs, sex, fantasies, about everything...Be with that person who doesn't make you feel bored.Whit that person who stays in bad with you all day long, you just get up for a coffee and a bit just for energy so you could get back in bad. Love that person who stays with you the entire weekend in bad because you two has what to talk to each other and what to do to each other for tree days,,,Love that person who you can tell about your fantasies and the most terrifying wishes , who you can tell your dreams and to do list, who understands all of that without judging you. he is that perfect person if you can stay in quite, look at each other and don't need to tel a damn thing to him because he knows...Love that person who has faith in you and doesn't give you a reason to check his phone , and even he doesn't look in yours because you believe in each other, you talk about all of it.Love that person because he doesn't need to look in your purse or agenda. Love that person that comes to take you from a club where you were with your girls to have fun and he let you because he has you in his heart and he knows that its enough to believe in you. Love that person who you wait for at home when he is in city with guys at a beer or club because you know that he will not be ashamed to let you know all is ok and come home clean. You believe in each other because you have each other in hearts and that's all that matters.Love that person who stands up for you in from of anybody, for whom you are his priority. Love that person who doesn't have a problem to stay at a lunch or dinner and roll his eyes because its boring ( only if you two do the same :))), he stays for you and make a conversation because that means a lot for you. stay with him and love him. for the respect he gives you.Love that person who can live with you the same as if you have ten thousand euro or just ten or almost nothing. Love that person because he is the right person, and there is the recipe of love. Communication, understanding and respect. One day sex will be less or more, but that is all that stays there for ever you and him,
If your guy or girl makes at least some of those upside that I mention, he or she is a keeper, you are lucky , because this days love doesn't grow on trees. Make sure that you two do that and keep and protect him/her today and forever, because that is the right person to love.
Xoxo Ybell
I searched for this recipe for few years. I was always surrounded with gr8 friends most of them male, because in my opinion girls were a lil bit to jealous too needy and too much seeing bitchy part of me. So I listened to story and advices from guys , but that didn't helped. They are all the same and all different at the same time. So back to recipe. I looked for it like desperate for it and there are still days when I search for it.
There are a lot of magazines writing about those things how to find mister perfect, there are books and a lot of literature wrote for love, from love, with love,how and where to search, how to talk, how to walk,how to behave.How to find your soul mate and how to keep it. or at least for a period of time.
I have read thousand and hundreds of it, everywhere on paper and Internet. I looked around for happy couples and talk to them about it, friends or friends of friends or just acquittance. I asked my parents or older people for advice , they are so many years in a happy marriage...But finally I got my answer. I have to look inside my heart, there is the answer. In me. Everyone should search for it inside of himself, because there is the right answer.
I could try to give you some pattern what really matters for love and happiness but I also tell this to myself, because one day I may forget it, and I will search for that again inside my heart. Hopefully my dear soul mate will be right next to me and we will laugh out of happiness...Somehow it has always been there, the answer, but there is only one way to find it and only one way to keep it. The right person.
You should live with someone who is making you smile, and he laughs with you and he makes jokes with you , but also he laughs at everything you say crazy and even stupid. that's happiness. Laugh with each other like kids.Live with that person that you have a lot to talk about, all those things that happen to you to him. About everything. Make a good communication, because when you are young there are a lot of possibilities but when you're older you need that one person to be there to talk about everything because communication is the key of a good relationship. Love that person that is there for you and you are there for him no matter what. Without secrets, that's also the key of a gr8 relationship, when you decide that you too love each other , there should not be secrets. Love each other a lot and believe in each other and talk a lot. about the day, about meal, about dreams and hopes, about plans, traveling, distance, hugs, sex, fantasies, about everything...Be with that person who doesn't make you feel bored.Whit that person who stays in bad with you all day long, you just get up for a coffee and a bit just for energy so you could get back in bad. Love that person who stays with you the entire weekend in bad because you two has what to talk to each other and what to do to each other for tree days,,,Love that person who you can tell about your fantasies and the most terrifying wishes , who you can tell your dreams and to do list, who understands all of that without judging you. he is that perfect person if you can stay in quite, look at each other and don't need to tel a damn thing to him because he knows...Love that person who has faith in you and doesn't give you a reason to check his phone , and even he doesn't look in yours because you believe in each other, you talk about all of it.Love that person because he doesn't need to look in your purse or agenda. Love that person that comes to take you from a club where you were with your girls to have fun and he let you because he has you in his heart and he knows that its enough to believe in you. Love that person who you wait for at home when he is in city with guys at a beer or club because you know that he will not be ashamed to let you know all is ok and come home clean. You believe in each other because you have each other in hearts and that's all that matters.Love that person who stands up for you in from of anybody, for whom you are his priority. Love that person who doesn't have a problem to stay at a lunch or dinner and roll his eyes because its boring ( only if you two do the same :))), he stays for you and make a conversation because that means a lot for you. stay with him and love him. for the respect he gives you.Love that person who can live with you the same as if you have ten thousand euro or just ten or almost nothing. Love that person because he is the right person, and there is the recipe of love. Communication, understanding and respect. One day sex will be less or more, but that is all that stays there for ever you and him,
If your guy or girl makes at least some of those upside that I mention, he or she is a keeper, you are lucky , because this days love doesn't grow on trees. Make sure that you two do that and keep and protect him/her today and forever, because that is the right person to love.
Xoxo Ybell
