What about long distance relationship, do you think those can work out?
If you asked me ten years ago I would definitively say no! Because Like a teen you need to spend time and cuddle and kiss and text and talk and hold hands and kind of he has to babysit you...but how time comes by , I think relationship works on distance and why I think so , its because distance is not the one thing that brings you apart, its what brings you closer , sometimes couples do need some time for themselves without babysitting. And I am not talking about six months free time that's absurd but also there are couples who take relationship on the next level and they have to leave for few months maybe a year because of work , or they are more apart than together in the relationship, and again I am telling you the distance is not the problem , what ends relationships on a distance is faith. When one of you get jealous and I am not talking about that little cute kind of jealousy , that is always welcomed, I am talking about that possessive sick kind, and when one of you start to doubt about the truth then there is a problem and that relationship will never work out. And its the same for those who are breathing the same kitchen , toilet or room air everyday... When there is a problem , there is a problem and that for sure isn't the distance.
I have always believed that if something is meant to be,it will always find his way. And i still believe it. So whats the matter if you are 2 ft from each other or 2 thousand miles, the distance will not influence you to brake up or separate, feelings will. If you're love , faith and respect is strong enough than my dears you two are two lucky bastards that will live happily ever after , and if not than that's it , it has never been the one, just a passenger to teach you a lesson in you're life so far.
I want to tell you a story ... Once when I was thinking I was in love and oh my dear God I wanted to know of course like all teen girls if I will marry him or if he is the one and this fairy tale shits, I asked my mom how she knew my dad was the one. An she told me also a happily ever after fairy tale that of course sounds so happy and fluffy and full of bubbles and cake.But she gave me a very nice advice how should I know if I want to live with this guy for the rest of my life. So I will tell you the same. Take a paper and a pen and write his pro and cons. Witch one do you have more? Now you will know...Believe me it is so. At first I was looking sceptic and every time i had a boyfriend I made this list and there always were at least one more cons than pro. But I was thinking maybe he will change ( people never change, at least not for someone, they change if they want for who they want...extremely rare) , and than I told myself oh damn I am not perfect so why I expect him to be perfect...I was looking for excuses , but the truth is we aren't perfect but there somewhere is that perfect guy for us and we are perfect for him, and that's the match made in heaven. You just need to be truth to yourself,believe you're heart and mind of course and make that list, if there is just one contra more than pro, I am so sorry he is not the one, keep searching.
We often don't want to listen what mom tell us for advice because we think we know a lot and she is just old and we don't want things to be the way she told us, but the truth is she was there and she is wiser and she is the woman who want the best for her little girl, think twice before you do something. My mom is my best friend I can tell her everything , almost everything. And this advice she gave me is priceless because now I did find my guy , and he my dears maybe has one or two cons over a hundred of pros. Hope you're list will turn perfect, just have faith.
Xoxo Ybell
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If you asked me ten years ago I would definitively say no! Because Like a teen you need to spend time and cuddle and kiss and text and talk and hold hands and kind of he has to babysit you...but how time comes by , I think relationship works on distance and why I think so , its because distance is not the one thing that brings you apart, its what brings you closer , sometimes couples do need some time for themselves without babysitting. And I am not talking about six months free time that's absurd but also there are couples who take relationship on the next level and they have to leave for few months maybe a year because of work , or they are more apart than together in the relationship, and again I am telling you the distance is not the problem , what ends relationships on a distance is faith. When one of you get jealous and I am not talking about that little cute kind of jealousy , that is always welcomed, I am talking about that possessive sick kind, and when one of you start to doubt about the truth then there is a problem and that relationship will never work out. And its the same for those who are breathing the same kitchen , toilet or room air everyday... When there is a problem , there is a problem and that for sure isn't the distance.
I have always believed that if something is meant to be,it will always find his way. And i still believe it. So whats the matter if you are 2 ft from each other or 2 thousand miles, the distance will not influence you to brake up or separate, feelings will. If you're love , faith and respect is strong enough than my dears you two are two lucky bastards that will live happily ever after , and if not than that's it , it has never been the one, just a passenger to teach you a lesson in you're life so far.
I want to tell you a story ... Once when I was thinking I was in love and oh my dear God I wanted to know of course like all teen girls if I will marry him or if he is the one and this fairy tale shits, I asked my mom how she knew my dad was the one. An she told me also a happily ever after fairy tale that of course sounds so happy and fluffy and full of bubbles and cake.But she gave me a very nice advice how should I know if I want to live with this guy for the rest of my life. So I will tell you the same. Take a paper and a pen and write his pro and cons. Witch one do you have more? Now you will know...Believe me it is so. At first I was looking sceptic and every time i had a boyfriend I made this list and there always were at least one more cons than pro. But I was thinking maybe he will change ( people never change, at least not for someone, they change if they want for who they want...extremely rare) , and than I told myself oh damn I am not perfect so why I expect him to be perfect...I was looking for excuses , but the truth is we aren't perfect but there somewhere is that perfect guy for us and we are perfect for him, and that's the match made in heaven. You just need to be truth to yourself,believe you're heart and mind of course and make that list, if there is just one contra more than pro, I am so sorry he is not the one, keep searching.
We often don't want to listen what mom tell us for advice because we think we know a lot and she is just old and we don't want things to be the way she told us, but the truth is she was there and she is wiser and she is the woman who want the best for her little girl, think twice before you do something. My mom is my best friend I can tell her everything , almost everything. And this advice she gave me is priceless because now I did find my guy , and he my dears maybe has one or two cons over a hundred of pros. Hope you're list will turn perfect, just have faith.
Xoxo Ybell
Photo source ( we heart it)
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