Secrets...how long can you keep it?

What are really secrets? And how long are we suposed to keep them? 

If I make a promise I'll never tell something, isn't that right to keep it for the rest of your life?So what is really a secret..It can be small and big, it can affect some people , a lot of people or almost no one.I remember few times my friends told me :"I'll tell you something,but please dont tell anyone else" and those were also my worlds few times. "

My father told me once: as long as only you know something it can't hurt and the person who knows it it's just you. If you tell one more person ,its you and that person but that other person can tell someone else so than its 1.1.1 "I didn't get it first time, but if you watch numbers it's not 2 or 3 its 11 or 111... so thats the number of people knowing "the secret"and it's no longer a secret. So I asume its better to keep it alone. But what if it hurts? what if it makes you too happy? how can you not share it, even only with your best friend?

So is there even something that is really a secret? And personal I think all people have one secret that they will never tell. Why to tell if its a secret? keep it, and shhhht.

My personal opinion is like this: "If my secret can hurt you , I'll take a risk and keep it so you will never get hurt, but if its a secret that makes you happy it comes more like a nice surprise so eventualy it will come out, but if I promis I wont tell, Its a promise for a lifetime.'"
Secrets...Sometimes they hurt sometimes they bring joy .  You can always decide if you will keep or tell it. They say that truth always come out. Is it so? It depends on you and how big is your faith , or mouth :))))

Have a nice day and think smart...

Xoxo Ybell